Posts tagged men
Posts tagged men
I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry one girl.
Cause we’re resistent the whole way, until we meet one girl and we think: “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great.”
But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option or something. I know girls that married they’re like: “Oh he’s got a good job.”
I mean, they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.
I find this insanely attractive…
I wish guys still dressed like this.
or had style.
and were straight…?
boom ba boom boom boom boom hey
you got that super bass!
Guys are not worth losing friendships.
They aren’t meant to be fought over.
If you aren’t in a relationship, you aren’t a loser.
Everyone is NOT “doing it”, so it’s ok if you’re not sexually active.
Having a boyfriend does not/should not do anything for your social status, self worth or self-esteem.
They are SOULS.
They aren’t “arm candy”.
They aren’t Santa, and they shouldn’t have to buy everything your little heart desires.
Contrary to popular belief, boyfriends are not your “hubbie”. They aren’t bound to you “till death do us part” so stop expecting husband-like conduct out of them.
The fact that you have a guy who cares about you does not qualify bragging rights, or something to be shoved in the faces of girls who are single/lonely with low self-esteem.
IMPORTANT NOTE: GUYS ARE NOT TROPHIES.
They aren’t something to toy with, or flirt with.
It’s not a game.
Don’t lead a guy on if you have no interest in him.
Odds are that someone out there truly DOES care about him, and you aren’t doing him any good. So let him go, please.
Don’t try to show everything God gave you in order to get attention.
And PLEASE do not flirt with other girls’ boyfriends - IT’S NOT COOL.
If you like a guy who’s in a relationship, you NEED to respect that.
If you were his girlfriend you wouldn’t appreciate some temptress trying to lore him away from you….would you?
Most likely not.
If the object of your affections decides he’s interested in another girl, don’t just randomly jump all over him and try to pull him away from her.
That’s not cool.
PLEASE don’t write crap all over his facebook wall trying to grab his attention, don’t tweet him a thousands times, and PLEASE don’t text him to the point where you have to be blocked.
We are ladies, we need to start acting like it.
All of these behaviors are common.
They have got to STOP.
We need to stop being “a dime a dozen”.
We are sisters and brothers in Christ and when we act like this, we are no better off than animals. We aren’t treasuring someone’s soul and we aren’t treating them with respect.
So please if any of these things rings a bell for you, please try and stop it.
If you are in a relationship, that’s awesome! You have been given a wonderful opportunity to cherish a soul, and love as Christ does.
If you’re single, God’s still got something up his sleeve.
In the meantime stay prayerful and patient, wherever you find yourself in life.
I’ve noticed that the majority of the following I have on my blog are females. And just from yesterday’s “Be A Man” post, it is evident that you all are craving something sincere and genuine in a man.
I want to encourage you in saying that I am praying for you.
But with the precious time you have on this earth, spend it in fear of God. Consume yourselves with the Gospel. Make disciples of all nations. In due time, you’ll find the man God has prepared for you.
this truly blows my mind.
God is so good.
I want to thank whoever posted this for consuming my heart with hope :)
you know you’re depressed when you find yourself spending the beginning of your evening watching clips of men’s ice skating from the olympics.
it’s come down to this.
regardless, this is my favorite program ever.
back in 2002 when I was a little girl, I watched this over and over and over untill I had it memorized and I would “skate” along with him on my family room floor.
it was the first time I’d ever heard music from “Carmen” and I fell in love.